That's why you can have guys who fantasy about rape without want to be raped, who fantasy about incest without feeling anything for the members of their own family, who read shotacon (or whatever) without feeling anything for children in real life. Because a big part of what makes a fantasy so enjoyable, is the security of it (= it will never happen). And that fantasies, and reality, are often two different things.įantasy porn, or roleplay, are not a substitut : it's the ideal frame in which fantasies can exprime themselves. And she explained that it was awful, a big trauma, that it had nothing to do with what she felt while fantasying about rape. But also that not so long ago, at a party, she almost got raped (if I remember well : she was sleepy, and a drunk guy was starting to try to have sex with her). She explained that rape turns her on since forever, that it's her master kick. It was a girl's tumblr, and she had a rape fetish (her porn tumblr was about that). I remember, when I was going from tumblr to tumblr searching for rough sex, a presentation text on one of them.
